Sounds like we could help each other out, with a little help from our friends here on the ring. They have been a great help to me.
Our Nanday, Hudson, is just 12 weeks old. We have had him around a week.
Hudson seems to know "Step up" quite well and he also loves to snuggle on mine and my B/f chest. He has taken a little interest in his toys out his cage, though not much. When we wanted to bath him, we put a little water in a large flatish bowl and misted him with a sprayer bottle, but he didn't do much. He never cowered away, just didn't take much interest. From what I gather, this will change when he becomes more confident.
Have you read many books? I have and I think opinion is divided on some things. Thats when I ask our friends here on the ring what they think.
See "fact/fiction" which I have posted earlier.
What do you feed your Nanday on? Hudson is now on a small amount of seed with fresh veg in another pot. To get him to eat the veg, we had to remove his seed for a few hours (Just seed, Not water obviously).He was soon converted. Read as much as you can on diet, as it is a major, major factor in their health and longlivety.
Good luck and keep me informed with updates!